Laura Chapman

– Does the focus on healing actually pull us away from living fully. Every time I look at Instagram or Facebook, I see people stating they are in their ‘healing era’… but what the hell does this even mean?! Sometimes, I think we’re all so busy ‘healing’ that we forget to actually live. When people go through things, and I’m talking HUGE things. Traumatic things. Things that no one should ever have to go through;...

OK firstly, some people may not like this blog post! When we talk about manipulation in relationships, we usually think about more overt forms of coercive behaviour. What I want to talk about today is much more subtle and, not surprisingly... can be linked back to attachment styles. Just a quick note on attachment: In one of my last blogs, I describe Attachment styles and discuss the anxious – avoidant trap, and in case you haven’t read it (here). However, because people pleasing is often...

The therapist-client relationship is not a one-way street guys. Changing attachment in therapy requires both parties to meet in the...